{"id":82,"date":"2006-02-07T19:17:08","date_gmt":"2006-02-08T00:17:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/devinreams.com\/2006\/02\/07\/dealing-with-stress\/"},"modified":"2006-02-07T19:17:08","modified_gmt":"2006-02-08T00:17:08","slug":"dealing-with-stress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordpress.reams.me\/?p=82","title":{"rendered":"Dealing With Stress"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I?ve been reading a bunch on stress (given I?m a <a href=\"http:\/\/devinreams.com\/2006\/02\/05\/workaholics\/\">workaholic<\/a>) and I?ve done some thinking: I rarely ever feel stressed so I never have to deal with it. I?ve never understood why this is, though. Maybe I?m stress proof, maybe it?s how I live my life? My question to you is:<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>How do <em>you<\/em> deal with stress?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Do you ever lock yourself in the library for days at a time? Do you try to work harder and faster on the task at-hand? Do you work on the easier task first? Do you stop and take deep breaths? Do you tap your pen or move your leg up and down thousands of times a second? Do you tell yourself that the situation isn?t as bad as it seems? Do you ?retreat? and ignore everything else going on?<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">If you find yourself doing any of these things you may want to read more about the different ways to approach stress.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>Reactive: <\/strong>Reactive approaches are the easiest. It?s as simple as responding to stress and trying to cope with it once it arises. This includes stopping and taking a deep breath or quickly tapping your pen and even writing faster. Sure, reactive equals ?immediate? but is limited to the short-term.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>Proactive: <\/strong>Being proactive is about developing resiliency strategies: how you spring back to normalcy after being stretched in a hundred directions. This includes conditioning yourself to deal with stress (healthy diet, exercise, relaxation) and even reshaping your personality.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>Enactive:<\/strong> Being enactive means creating an environment that eliminates stressors. This is the hardest approach because it takes a lot of work and a lot of time. Though, the benefits are <strong>permanent<\/strong>. For many their strategies include time management and even redesigning the way they approach work.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">In the coming days I?ll address my personal strategies but, once again, I submit to you:<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>How do <em>you<\/em> deal with stress?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">[tags]stress, personal, workaholic[\/tags]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I?ve been reading a bunch on stress (given I?m a workaholic) and I?ve done some thinking: I rarely ever feel stressed so I never have to deal with it. I?ve never understood why this is, though. Maybe I?m stress proof, maybe it?s how I live my life? 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