{"id":533,"date":"2008-09-04T20:13:38","date_gmt":"2008-09-05T03:13:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.devinreams.com\/?p=533"},"modified":"2008-09-04T20:13:38","modified_gmt":"2008-09-05T03:13:38","slug":"social-media-best-practice-be-authentic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordpress.reams.me\/?p=533","title":{"rendered":"Social media best practice: be authentic"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/jeremytanner.com\/2008\/08\/be-different\/\">Jeremy Tanner tagged me<\/a>: I need to chime in and tell the world, in all my infinite wisdom, what a &#8220;social media&#8221; best practice is.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Interestingly enough my knee jerk reaction was to say either:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>if you call it social media you&#8217;re doing it wrong, or<\/li>\n<li>just stop trying, FFS.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>At least, that&#8217;s the way I&#8217;ve felt in the recent months. In fact, it&#8217;s a new rule for me on <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/devinreams\">twitter<\/a>. If you&#8217;re a self-proclaimed &#8220;social media&#8221; guru, then you&#8217;re not.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a title=\"conversations_silhouettes_id228513_size450\" href=\"http:\/\/flickr.com\/photos\/50698336@N00\/1411905457\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1427\/1411905457_9136c7cc0a.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"348\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>That leads me to my point: to be successful in social media (or any media, I believe) you need to <strong>be authentic<\/strong>. It goes back to one of my personal favorite posts: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.devinreams.com\/2007\/11\/26\/my-thoughts-on-transparency-honesty\/\">my thoughts on transparency and honesty.<\/a> If someone is extremely active across a variety of services and trying to connect with so many people (Linkedin, twitter, pownce, etc.) it sends the message that you&#8217;re convincing me I need to listen to you. It&#8217;s like trying to advertise your product after building it and calling that &#8220;marketing.&#8221; The biggest way to fail is to reach out to as many people as possible just to broadcast to your followship.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, be an authentic person. Just be you and the right people will find you. For instance:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.penelopetrunk.com\/\"><strong>Penelope Trunk<\/strong><\/a>, although a writer (its her day job to make uninteresting things interesting), is a geniune lady who will bare all and do her best to connect. I consider her the Britney Spears of the internet sometimes but she&#8217;s authentic and, thanks in part to that, has a tremendous followship; in both size and passion.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/garyvaynerchuk.com\"><strong>Gary<\/strong><strong> Vaynerchuk<\/strong><\/a>, although a marketer (its his day job to get the message out to everyone), is a geniune guy who will talk to anyone and go out of his way to make them feel important. He&#8217;s a busy guy but spends most of his day just talking to people via e-mail, twitter, facebook, and so on. In turn, he&#8217;s built up one of the most popular video podcasts about a product that no-one had ever thought to look for online: wine.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>There&#8217;s my thoughts on how to do social media the right way. Agree \/ disagree?<\/p>\n<p><em>Tag, you&#8217;re it: <a href=\"http:\/\/okdork.com\/\">noah kagan<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/andrewchen.typepad.com\/\">Andrew Chen<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com\">Ramit Sethi<\/a>. (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.twistimage.com\/blog\/\">original link<\/a>)<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jeremy Tanner tagged me: I need to chime in and tell the world, in all my infinite wisdom, what a &#8220;social media&#8221; best practice is. Interestingly enough my knee jerk reaction was to say either: if you call it social media you&#8217;re doing it wrong, or just stop trying, FFS. 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